Feb. 12, 2026

Love Is in the Air: Romance and Fantasy

Love Is in the Air: Romance and Fantasy
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Love Is in the Air: Romance and Fantasy

Today on Mythmakers, you’re invited to join us on a short visit to the world of fantasy romance. What's all the fuss about romantasy and where did it come from? What's the secret sauce (pun intended) of Fourth Wing? And why was the world so transfixed by Twilight back early 2000s?

Be sure to stay to the end to hear Julia’s recommendations of what you might like to read this Valentine's Day from the fantasy genre.

(01:00) The Rise of Romantasy and Fourth Wing
(02:00) Market Forces and Female Readership
(04:40) Twilight and the Power of Restrained Desire
(06:50) What Makes a True Fantasy Romance
(09:20) Recommended Romantic Fantasy Reads
(14:00) Writing Romance in the Finding Sky Series
(15:10) Why We Read Romance and the Hope of Finding the Right Person

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01:00:00 - The Rise of Romantasy and Fourth Wing

02:00:00 - Market Forces and Female Readership

04:40:00 - Twilight and the Power of Restrained Desire

06:50:00 - What Makes a True Fantasy Romance

09:20:00 - Recommended Romantic Fantasy Reads

14:00:00 - Writing Romance in the Finding Sky Series

15:10:00 - Why We Read Romance and the Hope of Finding the Right Person

1 00:00:04.580 --> 00:00:07.119 Hello and welcome to Mythmakers. 2 00:00:07.540 --> 00:00:12.280 Mythmakers is the podcast for fantasy fans and fantasy creatives brought to 3 00:00:12.280 --> 00:00:14.500 you by the Oxford Centre for Fantasy. 4 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:21.020 My name is Julia Golding and today we are in a romantic mood because we 5 00:00:21.020 --> 00:00:26.260 are fast approaching Valentine's Day and I wanted to have a look at the theme 6 00:00:26.260 --> 00:00:29.300 of romance in fantasy. 7 00:00:30.200 --> 00:00:35.480 So recently there's been the phenomenon of the romanticy and it's sort of 8 00:00:35.480 --> 00:00:36.900 reached ridiculous heights. 9 00:00:37.100 --> 00:00:42.400 It's like the main thing published by a lot of fantasy publishers and one of 10 00:00:42.400 --> 00:00:49.320 these sort of titles that really dominated is Rebecca Yarrow's The Fourth Wing 11 00:00:49.320 --> 00:00:51.680 and I think there's a second part as well. 12 00:00:52.380 --> 00:00:55.680 She is following in a tradition that already existed. 13 00:00:55.840 --> 00:00:59.700 She didn't invent the genre but publishers have sort of packaged it as a 14 00:00:59.700 --> 00:01:00.500 particular thing. 15 00:01:01.000 --> 00:01:03.459 So why is romanticy so popular at the moment? 16 00:01:03.980 --> 00:01:12.080 Well, it is a blend of the existing love for the sort of kingdom love 17 00:01:12.080 --> 00:01:17.060 affair, the sort of elf prince, human woman. 18 00:01:17.520 --> 00:01:17.980 Sarah J. 19 00:01:18.280 --> 00:01:22.800 Mars has done quite a few books in this area where you get a similar 20 00:01:22.800 --> 00:01:29.100 thing but her romance originally in the 2010s didn't step into quite so 21 00:01:29.100 --> 00:01:30.140 explicit territory. 22 00:01:30.600 --> 00:01:35.860 What happened with Fourth Wing and why there was a new frisson of interest is 23 00:01:35.860 --> 00:01:40.660 that it sort of leaned more into a more explicit depiction of sex. 24 00:01:42.160 --> 00:01:47.700 There is a readership out there, particularly sort of young women who came up 25 00:01:47.700 --> 00:01:53.840 through the Harry Potter reading, The Hunger Games, then Twilight and going on 26 00:01:53.840 --> 00:01:57.260 to the weirdly stepping sideways into the Fifty Shades. 27 00:01:57.600 --> 00:02:02.800 There is a sort of big readership out there for this and romance is a 28 00:02:02.800 --> 00:02:07.500 massive, massive part of the income stream for many publishers. 29 00:02:08.020 --> 00:02:14.380 People will read romances, romanticism one after the other, often as e-books, 30 00:02:14.960 --> 00:02:19.200 though Fourth Wing, of course, is a big paperback book as well. 31 00:02:20.000 --> 00:02:25.980 So, they have found a female audience really, I would say. 32 00:02:26.080 --> 00:02:29.720 I'm not saying that men don't read it as well but when you think of 33 00:02:29.720 --> 00:02:34.400 a lot of the sort of hard-edge sci-fi or classic sci-fi, it 34 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:37.840 doesn't tend to cater so much for a female taste or a female eye. 35 00:02:38.500 --> 00:02:43.220 Romanticism is doing that and women are more book buyers, more readers than 36 00:02:43.220 --> 00:02:46.260 men, so market forces are also behind it. 37 00:02:47.500 --> 00:02:50.020 And of course, the thing that you get is the exotic. 38 00:02:50.780 --> 00:02:53.340 There is plenty of sub-genres in romance. 39 00:02:53.460 --> 00:02:56.480 If you just want to find out how many there are, go and look at 40 00:02:56.480 --> 00:03:03.340 some sort of book aggregate system but you get things like Harem romances and 41 00:03:03.340 --> 00:03:08.400 Arab Sheikh romances and Regency romances and so on and so on and so on, 42 00:03:08.420 --> 00:03:09.380 pirate romances. 43 00:03:10.020 --> 00:03:15.440 So, it fits well into this understanding that the background is going to be 44 00:03:15.440 --> 00:03:22.420 like this set dressing for a story which is powered mainly by a love story. 45 00:03:23.080 --> 00:03:25.080 Now, there's a lot else going on in Fourth Wing. 46 00:03:25.580 --> 00:03:30.420 It's also a coming-of-age story, a fairly sort of typical idea of the 47 00:03:30.420 --> 00:03:36.940 unregarded character who finds her power through discovering her skill as a 48 00:03:36.940 --> 00:03:37.560 dragon rider. 49 00:03:37.800 --> 00:03:45.580 But also, there's a sort of rebellion, that kind of edgy thing where there's a 50 00:03:45.580 --> 00:03:46.860 system that needs to be corrected. 51 00:03:47.020 --> 00:03:48.320 So, there's a lot of plot as well. 52 00:03:48.640 --> 00:03:55.120 So, very enjoyable but you have to also be ready for a certain sexual, 53 00:03:55.660 --> 00:03:59.820 certainly not younger YA sexual advance in it. 54 00:04:00.420 --> 00:04:03.460 So, romanticy has found its readership. 55 00:04:04.520 --> 00:04:09.660 But if we dig back through where this all came from, I remember reading Anne 56 00:04:09.660 --> 00:04:10.260 McCathery. 57 00:04:10.480 --> 00:04:12.240 That's the first dragon rider story. 58 00:04:13.360 --> 00:04:18.120 She has a series called the Chronicles of Pern, first one being Dragonflight, 59 00:04:18.540 --> 00:04:19.920 which I loved as a teenager. 60 00:04:20.180 --> 00:04:21.820 Found it in the school library, I think. 61 00:04:22.340 --> 00:04:25.720 And I went back when romanticy sort of revived. 62 00:04:25.840 --> 00:04:30.500 I went back and read it and discovered that there, the sexual mores of that 63 00:04:30.500 --> 00:04:33.720 world are very much of that era. 64 00:04:33.920 --> 00:04:38.180 I think it was, let me just check here, it was published in 1969. 65 00:04:39.940 --> 00:04:40.440 There we go. 66 00:04:41.420 --> 00:04:44.080 So, that's 56 years ago. 67 00:04:45.000 --> 00:04:50.920 And what we have here is a, I would say that the main female character 68 00:04:50.920 --> 00:04:52.220 is living in like a harem. 69 00:04:53.000 --> 00:04:55.920 So, she has all these dragon riders around her. 70 00:04:55.980 --> 00:04:57.520 It's like a Queen Bee idea. 71 00:04:58.280 --> 00:04:59.060 It's very 60s. 72 00:04:59.740 --> 00:05:05.320 So, you can see that the romance element in this fantasy is following the sort 73 00:05:05.320 --> 00:05:08.460 of ideas of what is sexually exciting in each decade. 74 00:05:09.280 --> 00:05:11.540 I found it quite difficult to read going back to it. 75 00:05:11.640 --> 00:05:18.100 What I found exciting and read without comment as a teenager, I now thought, 76 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:20.500 oh, these relationships are all a bit skewed. 77 00:05:21.320 --> 00:05:23.940 So, I didn't enjoy it very much when I went back to it. 78 00:05:24.680 --> 00:05:32.240 But there are, of course, we can't talk about romance in more recent fiction 79 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:34.400 without mentioning Twilight. 80 00:05:34.760 --> 00:05:38.580 Now, I don't know how old you were when Twilight was around. 81 00:05:38.740 --> 00:05:44.560 I was a mother of a daughter of the age at which Twilight was sort 82 00:05:44.560 --> 00:05:45.120 of directed. 83 00:05:45.960 --> 00:05:49.920 And I remember my daughter was completely besotted by this series. 84 00:05:50.760 --> 00:05:53.600 So, I went and read it because I thought, why is she walking around the 85 00:05:53.600 --> 00:05:54.620 house holding Twilight? 86 00:05:55.320 --> 00:05:56.340 What is going on here? 87 00:05:56.460 --> 00:05:58.100 What's the secret sauce going on? 88 00:05:58.520 --> 00:06:02.160 And of course, you quickly see that it is a high school romance. 89 00:06:02.340 --> 00:06:07.080 It's got that breathless intensity of that crush that you get on the cool boy 90 00:06:07.080 --> 00:06:08.980 in the years above you. 91 00:06:09.420 --> 00:06:11.940 Again, aimed at a female readership. 92 00:06:12.700 --> 00:06:17.290 And it's riveting. 93 00:06:17.290 --> 00:06:23.690 There's also, because of the vampirism thing, it reintroduces the idea of 94 00:06:23.690 --> 00:06:24.230 manners. 95 00:06:24.790 --> 00:06:30.850 So, if you think about a Regency story written like, say, Jane Austen, very 96 00:06:30.850 --> 00:06:36.710 small gestures have an erotic charge, you know, dancing with somebody. 97 00:06:37.090 --> 00:06:41.090 Or if you look at the film versions of Jane Austen, being handed into a 98 00:06:41.090 --> 00:06:46.890 carriage in Persuasion and Captain Wentworth takes one of the naughty little 99 00:06:46.890 --> 00:06:50.870 boys who's clambering over Anne off her back, relieving her of a load. 100 00:06:51.090 --> 00:06:57.250 Tiny gestures which speak volumes about what's going on, the subtext of that 101 00:06:57.250 --> 00:06:57.870 relationship. 102 00:06:59.250 --> 00:07:02.990 Twilight does that through the metaphor of the vampire. 103 00:07:03.550 --> 00:07:04.830 How far can you go? 104 00:07:05.290 --> 00:07:09.190 Because the vampire might lose control because your blood is so tasty. 105 00:07:10.030 --> 00:07:13.610 And of course, the idea of blood and what have you, it's all very textual. 106 00:07:14.850 --> 00:07:18.010 And it has that element of danger. 107 00:07:18.250 --> 00:07:25.310 In modern times when anything goes, each to their own, it reintroduces an 108 00:07:25.310 --> 00:07:27.130 element of restrictions. 109 00:07:27.610 --> 00:07:30.990 And restrictions make for a better, tense relationship. 110 00:07:31.990 --> 00:07:38.030 Because there are taboos and things you can't do and borders that are crossed, 111 00:07:38.030 --> 00:07:39.770 which are big in the relationship. 112 00:07:40.670 --> 00:07:41.950 So it was doing that. 113 00:07:42.070 --> 00:07:48.550 It was doing the high school, using vampire as this sort of coding for romantic 114 00:07:48.550 --> 00:07:49.130 rules. 115 00:07:49.810 --> 00:07:53.850 And, you know, there's lots of peril and attacks and drama. 116 00:07:54.850 --> 00:07:58.890 I can see why a teenage girl likes it. 117 00:07:59.270 --> 00:08:04.730 However, I do remember watching the film versions, taking a party of school 118 00:08:04.730 --> 00:08:06.630 kids, I think, you know, daughter's friends. 119 00:08:07.350 --> 00:08:08.530 I think it was the third film. 120 00:08:09.010 --> 00:08:14.070 I noticed that in the cinema, I and an adult, my dad, who'd come with 121 00:08:14.070 --> 00:08:18.450 their family, were both laughing at very different things from the girls. 122 00:08:18.870 --> 00:08:20.990 Because I found it all a bit satirical. 123 00:08:21.530 --> 00:08:26.830 And I sort of laughed at a meta level, which I think wasn't really noticed 124 00:08:26.830 --> 00:08:28.410 at that stage by the audience. 125 00:08:28.510 --> 00:08:32.370 So if my daughter watched it today, she would pick up on those same signals. 126 00:08:33.510 --> 00:08:37.070 So what is a fantasy romance? 127 00:08:37.350 --> 00:08:40.409 Well, I think we first of all have to say it's not a fantasy with 128 00:08:40.409 --> 00:08:41.250 a romance in. 129 00:08:42.049 --> 00:08:45.270 So obviously, Tolkien, we all love Tolkien. 130 00:08:45.870 --> 00:08:47.910 There are romances in Tolkien. 131 00:08:48.270 --> 00:08:53.470 There's Aragorn and Arwen, Faramir and Erwin, Beren and Lúthien. 132 00:08:53.470 --> 00:09:00.470 These are romances, love stories, but they don't make Lord of the Rings a 133 00:09:00.470 --> 00:09:05.790 romance, because the main driver of the plot is that of friendship and 134 00:09:05.790 --> 00:09:06.270 sacrifice. 135 00:09:07.110 --> 00:09:12.930 So it's not romantic love, it's filial, it's the love of comrades, the love for 136 00:09:12.930 --> 00:09:18.810 your country, it's that kind of love, the sort of love of the soldier fighting 137 00:09:18.810 --> 00:09:22.370 for what's right, or the person putting their life on the line. 138 00:09:23.390 --> 00:09:25.290 So exclude that. 139 00:09:27.290 --> 00:09:34.150 So if you're looking for a good romance in fantasy for reading over Valentine's 140 00:09:34.150 --> 00:09:42.670 Day or giving to somebody, I'm not into the very explicit version of this that 141 00:09:42.670 --> 00:09:43.770 you get in some romanticy. 142 00:09:43.950 --> 00:09:47.370 So I would not pick that myself, each to their own. 143 00:09:48.170 --> 00:09:51.730 But there are some writers who've been around for a few years that I would 144 00:09:51.730 --> 00:09:52.250 recommend. 145 00:09:53.850 --> 00:10:00.170 So she's an older writer now, but I very much enjoyed Elizabeth Vaughan's War 146 00:10:00.170 --> 00:10:02.330 Prize trilogy. 147 00:10:02.530 --> 00:10:03.810 It starts with a book called War Prize. 148 00:10:03.910 --> 00:10:07.010 This one is the last in the series, Warlord. 149 00:10:07.690 --> 00:10:16.670 And it's really a story of what happens between a colonizer and a colonized and 150 00:10:16.670 --> 00:10:19.390 looking at how two cultures come together. 151 00:10:20.150 --> 00:10:23.010 And the romance is a way of showing that. 152 00:10:24.490 --> 00:10:28.310 Again, I would say it's a sort of YA upwards title. 153 00:10:28.810 --> 00:10:30.430 But I very much enjoyed that. 154 00:10:30.510 --> 00:10:31.330 And I would recommend that. 155 00:10:31.470 --> 00:10:32.930 Again, it's an older book. 156 00:10:33.350 --> 00:10:38.550 So published in the early part of this century. 157 00:10:39.110 --> 00:10:43.810 And she's done others as well that sort of expand her world. 158 00:10:43.870 --> 00:10:45.090 And I very much enjoyed those. 159 00:10:45.090 --> 00:10:49.330 Another writer writing around the same time is Maria V. 160 00:10:49.510 --> 00:10:49.990 Schneider. 161 00:10:50.310 --> 00:10:54.450 The book I've got in my hand is Magic Study, but it starts with one 162 00:10:54.450 --> 00:10:59.690 called Poison Study, which has one of the best openings of any book, in my 163 00:10:59.690 --> 00:10:59.930 view. 164 00:11:00.250 --> 00:11:05.690 It starts with the main character, Yelena, who is in prison on Death Row. 165 00:11:06.830 --> 00:11:10.950 And she is dragged out after this awful experience. 166 00:11:11.570 --> 00:11:13.910 She's dragged out and given the choice. 167 00:11:14.010 --> 00:11:19.590 You can either go to the noose, or you can become the food taster for 168 00:11:19.590 --> 00:11:22.090 the general who's in charge of this world. 169 00:11:22.690 --> 00:11:24.990 But of course, there's a high chance you'll die of poison. 170 00:11:26.070 --> 00:11:27.270 And I love that story. 171 00:11:27.450 --> 00:11:32.950 And it has a sort of slow burn romance that runs through the series. 172 00:11:33.070 --> 00:11:38.830 And the series expands from the first country in and goes into other nations, 173 00:11:38.830 --> 00:11:40.150 which is absolutely fascinating. 174 00:11:40.150 --> 00:11:44.690 So I would recommend that if you haven't read them already. 175 00:11:45.350 --> 00:11:50.270 And again, the world expands into other series alongside it. 176 00:11:51.630 --> 00:11:58.070 Another series I like is Trudy Canavan's The Magician's Guild, which is a sort 177 00:11:58.070 --> 00:11:58.630 of tragedy. 178 00:11:58.990 --> 00:12:00.550 Sorry to spoil the end. 179 00:12:00.790 --> 00:12:07.670 But there's a tragic vein in this about Sonia, who's a trainee magician. 180 00:12:08.670 --> 00:12:13.110 Perhaps this is one of those ones which is evenly balanced, because in fact, 181 00:12:13.210 --> 00:12:15.370 the love story doesn't dominate. 182 00:12:15.530 --> 00:12:16.790 There's some other points of view. 183 00:12:17.430 --> 00:12:21.330 So it may actually be on the cusp, but it does definitely have a romance 184 00:12:21.330 --> 00:12:25.950 in it by the time you get to the second and third parts of the 185 00:12:25.950 --> 00:12:26.210 trilogy. 186 00:12:26.770 --> 00:12:31.790 I haven't actually really liked as much Trudy Canavan's other books in and 187 00:12:31.790 --> 00:12:34.150 around this one, but this first three I've really liked. 188 00:12:34.870 --> 00:12:36.290 So I would recommend that. 189 00:12:37.950 --> 00:12:42.650 And of course, there is a huge world of books, which are primarily the sort 190 00:12:42.650 --> 00:12:44.770 of digital download Kindle world. 191 00:12:45.870 --> 00:12:46.430 Absolutely. 192 00:12:48.170 --> 00:12:52.430 Part of the landscape, which is chock-a-block with titles. 193 00:12:53.250 --> 00:12:57.650 There's a fascinating husband and wife duo who write as Elona Andrews. 194 00:12:58.690 --> 00:13:04.110 They have some very good books in that series, and the Kate Daniels series. 195 00:13:05.710 --> 00:13:09.950 And I've actually enjoyed some of the books she's written after, because 196 00:13:09.950 --> 00:13:14.750 normally you would expect romance to finish at wedding bells, but actually 197 00:13:14.750 --> 00:13:19.150 she's carried on, or they have carried on after. 198 00:13:19.870 --> 00:13:21.110 And that's very enjoyable. 199 00:13:21.250 --> 00:13:22.310 It's quite a huge area. 200 00:13:22.690 --> 00:13:26.750 Talking about Mammoth series, another one, which is actually a detective story, 201 00:13:26.910 --> 00:13:34.090 is the J.D. Robb in-death series, which has a central couple who really 202 00:13:34.090 --> 00:13:35.950 are sort of the heart of it. 203 00:13:36.010 --> 00:13:38.170 But I think it's now into about 56 parts. 204 00:13:38.710 --> 00:13:42.010 And I have actually read all of them or listened to them over the years, 205 00:13:42.010 --> 00:13:43.490 but it's been running since the 90s. 206 00:13:43.650 --> 00:13:46.190 So yeah, I think they do about one or two a year. 207 00:13:47.130 --> 00:13:54.670 So if you like a sort of slightly futuristic cop romance, that's a good series. 208 00:13:55.390 --> 00:14:00.570 Though they do have the problem that when she started writing, it's actually 209 00:14:00.570 --> 00:14:02.810 Nora Roberts is the underlying writer. 210 00:14:03.830 --> 00:14:07.650 There was, you know, 2050 felt a long way off and now we're catching up. 211 00:14:07.730 --> 00:14:08.770 So I don't know what she's going to do. 212 00:14:09.110 --> 00:14:10.570 Plus it's taking a very long time. 213 00:14:11.490 --> 00:14:19.790 J.D. Robb, life of the characters is going much more slowly than real life. 214 00:14:21.030 --> 00:14:23.950 So you keep wanting them to move a little bit further on with their 215 00:14:23.950 --> 00:14:24.710 relationship. 216 00:14:25.210 --> 00:14:29.010 So it's taking a while, that series, but enjoyable. 217 00:14:29.590 --> 00:14:35.150 The detective plots are always very entertaining and set in a futuristic New 218 00:14:35.150 --> 00:14:35.370 York. 219 00:14:35.690 --> 00:14:37.710 So yeah, catnip. 220 00:14:39.170 --> 00:14:44.870 So I've also written fantasy versions of romances. 221 00:14:45.430 --> 00:14:51.310 And my first series writing as Joss Sterling was the Finding Sky series, which 222 00:14:51.310 --> 00:14:58.290 stretched to six books, which did very well for me back in the 2010s. 223 00:14:58.430 --> 00:15:03.030 And what I was thinking about was I was writing that is I wanted a 224 00:15:03.030 --> 00:15:12.670 sense of that intense finding the right person because often actually 225 00:15:12.670 --> 00:15:14.010 that's the heart of it. 226 00:15:14.090 --> 00:15:17.730 And this is where I'm going to rest on it is when you find the 227 00:15:17.730 --> 00:15:22.650 right person and you click together, that is such a big payoff. 228 00:15:22.910 --> 00:15:23.750 That is what we want. 229 00:15:23.830 --> 00:15:26.290 We want Elizabeth to find her Darcy. 230 00:15:26.710 --> 00:15:30.010 In my case, you want your Sky to find her Zed. 231 00:15:30.950 --> 00:15:37.410 And that clicking together is why people read romances because it promises, and 232 00:15:37.410 --> 00:15:40.550 this perhaps is where it might be a bit of a fantasy, it promises there 233 00:15:40.550 --> 00:15:43.610 is someone out there for you if you just find them. 234 00:15:43.710 --> 00:15:49.950 So I hope this Valentine's Day that you have found that right person who clicks 235 00:15:49.950 --> 00:15:54.570 together with you, or if you've had one that didn't click that you're able to 236 00:15:54.570 --> 00:15:56.110 go on and find that person. 237 00:15:56.470 --> 00:16:03.890 So happy Valentine's Day and do pick up a good romantic fantasy and have some 238 00:16:03.890 --> 00:16:04.150 fun. 239 00:16:04.750 --> 00:16:06.270 Thank you very much for listening.